This is a self absorbed post
February 27, 2009
Don’t say I did not warn you.
While I was talking to my cuz yesterday, it strikes me that it was indeed a dramatic (kind of) day. Well, not really, but you’ll get the hang of it once I explain it.
Finding out one of my favorite pair of shoe is missing, and when my curiosity leads me to another discovery that left me speechless.
Money taints friendship if you let it get inside your head and run you down, and eventually you will become a nameless road kill.
That is beside the point; however, if you happen to find out that your friend is unethical cunning “well intentioned” to a point that in order to commercialize their skillset as a trade, suddenly you are the pawn in their business strategy. If they would have told you about it is fine, but if you suddenly discover that your wedding slideshow in on youtube without your consent or a courtesy fyi to you from the said person who posted it, it kind of left a bad taste in your mouth, and worse, a slight tinge of disappointment.
So in order not to make situation fugly, you just keep quiet about it and did not confront the culprit.
Now dear readers, THIS is very unlikely of ME!!
But then again, the said person is not actually my friend, but rather kh’s. So I guess I’ll just be contend with the role of a meek housewife. Hehee… Oh ya, did i tell you that the said person brought along his dslr to the wedding dinner (mind you, we did not hire him as a photographer), and said he just take pictures for fun and will give us, and ended up giving both kh and I low resolution pictures because we decided not to engage his wife’s photodesign and photobook services? Was i wrong in the first place to assume that normally friends who took pictures at your wedding will give you pictures in their original or better resolution because that is just the things friends do. Apparently, my wisdom 2cents regarding life’s experiences failed me in this. Bah!!